The S.H.I.T.T.S Podcast
The S.H.I.T.T.S Podcast
Balancing Life, Love, and Purpose: Navigating Modern Relationships and Gender Roles
Is it possible to truly live rather than just exist? This episode of The S.H.I.T.T.S Podcast , hosted by Monsoon Staraw and B Karrington, unpacks the daily grind and the quest for purpose. We break down the balancing act between quitting unfulfilling jobs and the responsibilities that tether us, especially when kids are in the equation. Hear us get raw about how others perceive us versus how we actually feel, the struggle to pursue passions while paying the bills, and how mental and physical states affect intimacy.
Can intimacy survive when you're broke, hungry, or even homeless? We don't shy away from the gritty questions and candidly share our experiences about how financial stability—or the lack thereof—can impact one's desire for connection. Through laughter and serious reflection, we dig into the role of self-control and how different circumstances can shape your sexual behavior. We also spotlight the unique dynamics in lesbian relationships and discuss how women, more often than not, understand each other's desires better, diving into the roles of masculine and feminine energies.
Finally, why do modern relationships often fall apart, and how can we build them better? We challenge traditional gender roles, advocating for equitable partnerships and a fair division of labor within households. Our conversation touches on the importance of trust, honest communication, and the pitfalls of overly emotional reactions in today’s society. To wrap things up, we share an exciting announcement about our upcoming collaboration with Deka Dearse, Marc Gee, ILL Gordon, Vell Da General, and Andreas Haley. This episode is a blend of humor, insight, and real talk that you won't want to miss!
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Hey, hey, hey, hey, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. We are now back at the Shiz Podcast, as the words say. We're just shooting shit, just talking to each other and shit. We're either shooting the shit, starting some shit, or picking up what you left off. I'm your boy, I'm your host.
Speaker 2:Marsha Wintour, the coolest cat you heard, that's fire and this, your girl b karen's, and the lady that comes to y'all with all the tea and other bullshit b is back, b is back, b is back, yeah, yeah, y'all not tuned in to this podcast, y'all, hey.
Speaker 1:So look, you know people. You know people be asking me they be like man, what's your podcast about? Nigga everything. It's like nigga everything under the sun. So today man, me and B I'm sorry, b and I have been sitting here just talking about life and so much shit that we shooting the shit tonight for real, for real shooting the shit. So how you been.
Speaker 2:Man, I been good, you know, just shit Living. I guess you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:Don't say I guess no, you living.
Speaker 2:I'm existing. Oh no, you living. No, I'm existing, you living, I'm existing living, I'm existing.
Speaker 4:What's the?
Speaker 2:difference because I haven't really found my purpose yet.
Speaker 1:Until I find my purpose, until I figure it out, I feel like I'm just existing really yeah, I don't feel like I'm actually living yet you know the funny thing about that somebody else may see you and be inspired and feel like they disagree with you. They may feel like you living like a motherfucker. You know, I'm saying why you sitting there figuring like, why you sitting there figuring that you still just trying to figure shit out. Somebody may be looking at you and feel like, damn, she got it all figured out.
Speaker 2:You know possibly that could be, but I, I try to say I, I just I'll be honest with people like I haven't found my purpose.
Speaker 2:Um, I I tell anybody like it's hard to sometimes. I ain't gonna lie when I'm at work. I think I had just said this like I'd be wanting to just be like, hey man, fuck this, I quit. You know what I'm saying. But it's the same time like damn, if I quit, you know I got a child. So I'm like I ain't gonna lie, if I didn't have a child I would quit. I don't mind struggling, you know what I'm saying, but I just can't have my child struggling that makes sense, that yeah.
Speaker 2:I don't mind struggling, I quit. I go get me a job at the Family Dollar and then go full-fledged content creating.
Speaker 3:You know what I'm saying Full-fledged stealing, no Full-fledged content creating.
Speaker 2:You get what I'm saying. My life will be built around that and building that you know. Yeah, but I can't do that, because if I do that then my child gonna be right, who's gonna take? Yeah, sheen say I wanted a mom. That's gonna be a content creation to figure that out before you gave birth.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you don't say you got pregnant, you know that made me think about this book I read and it's it's called um. I don't even know who wrote that, but the name of it was do it, do what you love and the money will follow. So so it sounds simple as fuck, right? Right. But I don't really think it is, but then sometimes I do think it is. It's like if you focus on damn, like you can focus on the shit that you love, but realistically, like you still got to pay bills.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:And you still need a place to stay. You see what I'm saying. So I mean, unless you just love fucking, the money can't follow. You know what I'm saying. I mean it can't follow. I mean, cause shit motherfuckers been selling sex for eons, that shit. They never went out of business.
Speaker 2:Being a hoe gonna forever go Shit.
Speaker 1:It never. Yeah, nah, being a hoe.
Speaker 2:Prices just went up, yeah, it went up but being you gonna forever find have that's one profession that'll never go nowhere being a hoe, Like you know what I'm saying. You think AI can fuck with that.
Speaker 2:Man nine ain't nothing less than a nigga sitting at home just jacking off. You know what I'm saying. Like I don't know too many men to get off this subject we was talking about. But just let me just say this I don't know too many men that want to just sit there in front of a you know phone or a TV and just sit up there and jack off, like I think that they would want to touch a booty cheek or something.
Speaker 5:You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2:Yeah like they would want something Like after a while, this shit get boring.
Speaker 1:But wait, but if that's the case, but if that's the case, any sex can get boring.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I mean any sex, I think well, well, and it's all mental.
Speaker 1:I mean all right. Well, some people may disagree. That's what I, that's what I think. I think it's sex is 85 mental, 15 physical.
Speaker 2:You said no I think, so I'm gonna say 85 mental but I do think it's a 50 50. You know I'm saying because I don't, I don't know, I think I feel like physical, you have to be attracted to them right mentally. You just got to be in a right state of mind at the time. You know I'm saying if somebody going through something mentally or they depressed or something, no, I don't feel like fucking you, get away from me you know I'm saying um if I'm broke, I don't want to fuck like what me fucking you gonna make me get.
Speaker 2:I don't have five dollars I don't have five dollars in my pocket. I don't want to bust no nut. I want to bust somebody over the head like what is you talking about? You know, I'm saying like I don't want to do nothing like don't touch me you know, I mean that's how I am.
Speaker 2:I just never understood how people could be broke and broke like I've seen people who are homeless and they, you know I'm saying they'll be living with somebody and they fucking on there in their living room like it. I just never understood that, like I'd be like man, I can't do it right. Like bruh, we are in somebody's living room on a urbex, we not on vacation right this is our.
Speaker 1:This is where we staying right now right and you want to fuck man if you don't get the fuck up see, okay, because, yeah, because yeah I guess I don't know if that's fucked up or not, because I disagree with that. I feel like I could definitely fuck if I was broke. Really, yes, I could definitely fuck if I was broke. Like that wouldn't. I mean, like I said, I don't know if that's a bad thing, but I feel like that wouldn't bother me to feel like, no, I don't.
Speaker 2:So after you bust the nut right, Then your reality kick back in. My reality can kick in while I'm fucking. That's crazy. Your dick going to get soft. No.
Speaker 1:It's all about that mental.
Speaker 1:You just said, if I think I can be thinking about the reality, that's what I said and I mean, if I'm in it, you know what I'm saying I mean I don't, I'm not, it wouldn't really, it wouldn't really bother. That's why I think it may sound fucked up to people, but it wouldn't really bother me like that. Like if I was sick, you know what I'm saying. If I was sick I think it's this one If I was sick, then I would say yeah, I wouldn't feel like it. Depressed Maybe, yeah, depressed Probably not. If I'm depressed, probably not. But broke cause I found out I was worth this money.
Speaker 4:I thought I busted how, like before you that's probably gonna get me the money no, it's not.
Speaker 2:It's not.
Speaker 1:You just took your 30 minutes 30 you about to have me busting myself out?
Speaker 2:You took 30 minutes to do that. You took 30 minutes to do that and nah, I'm sorry, it's just like when girls, when people used to fuck on an empty stomach Like I, just feel like Hold on you can't fuck on an empty stomach. Like nah, that's what. Nah, that's what I say when you broke. Like if you're broke.
Speaker 1:Can't fuck hungry or broke.
Speaker 2:No, I'm hungry, I'm poor, I have nothing Like. What part of that is sexy?
Speaker 1:Alright, I mean.
Speaker 2:When I finish fucking you. I'm going to be sitting on the edge of the airbed talking about some what we're going to eat tonight. Right. Man, what we going to do, man? What we going to do, man, we got to figure out a way. Man call somebody, man, can you borrow us, oh, and then you're have you're, you have a relationship and you don't have no money on well, that's a whole see, but that's a whole nother story. Reason why I'm saying that is because when y'all fucking, it's two of y'all.
Speaker 1:But that ain't always a relationship.
Speaker 2:I'm just saying, well, okay, let's say it is a relationship. Okay. Y'all are together and y'all are screwing, y'all fucking and nobody got no money on.
Speaker 1:Well, we're going to answer that when we come back. Hey, yo, we're going to take a break real quick. Shout out to all the motherfuckers out there man, that's a fucking and ain't hungry and broke, and you know, after they fuck they still be hungry and broke and and and drained. Damn, it's just podcast, it's the shit, hey everybody.
Speaker 2:It's comedian Stephanie Robertson with the shits. Come check it out. You can follow me on Instagram at Stephanie underscore underscore Robertson. I will see you there. Make sure to follow.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. We are now back at the shits podcast. We are the shoot the shit, start the shit or pick no shit left off, and we had asked the question earlier Could you fuck if you was broke? Or could you fuck if you was hungry? Could you fuck if you was homeless? Could you fuck if you was not even thirsty? Because, I don't know, the people definition of thirsty is different. But could you fuck if you didn't have anything? If you didn't have a pot to piss in? Could you fuck? B said no. I'm saying yes, not if I was homeless, though, Like I said, if I was homeless, then I'm not going to be thinking about fucking. If I'm broke, I would definitely fuck. Okay, see, your definition of broke and my definition is two different things.
Speaker 2:Well, your definition of broke is you done paid all your bills, so you know you got no money. Well, your definition of broke is you done paid all your bills, so you know you got no money. That's not my definition of broke, that's you. You just was responsible. You know what I'm saying, right? My definition of broke is you have nothing. You know what I'm saying? You have absolutely nothing, right. So it's like what makes you want to date what? What makes you want to date? What makes you want to? Have sex. What make you say?
Speaker 2:oh, I'm horny, I'm horny. No, you're not.
Speaker 1:Well, you could be.
Speaker 2:Go do some resumes.
Speaker 1:That's going to get you horny doing resumes and shit, but you could be horny and it don't have to be because of the person that you with you probably thought of some shit and got horny.
Speaker 2:You could be horny and they don't have to be because of the person that you with you. Just you probably thought of some shit and got horny. If I have nothing, I'm not thinking about anything, but having something that makes sense that makes sense.
Speaker 1:I feel you on that. I feel you on that.
Speaker 2:That's a good ass point like okay, like I could care less. Right, you know that. But that's always been me, though. I've always said that I've had enough pussy to last me a lifetime. You know, I'm saying like it's, I don't care, you know, if I, if I, because I did used to mess with women too you know, I'm saying so in my eyes I used to feel like why niggas don't think like me?
Speaker 2:you know I'm saying I be feeling like I didn't have no cat to last me a lifetime. So really, though, yeah, I just feel that way. You know, I'm saying like it doesn't matter to me.
Speaker 4:I don't know, I don't know like, I don't know like, like, I just Self-control.
Speaker 2:Y'all niggas have no self-control. I don't even think.
Speaker 1:But I don't even think it's about not having self-control. I just think it's about the person. I just think it's about the person you, I don't know, I guess. I guess that would make me think about connections with people, because that's the shit that would make me want to fuck A connection. A connection. You know what I'm saying. Like you know what I'm saying, you may connect on a. It's going to sound like a damn love story shit. But you may connect on a deeper level and be like man shit you want to fuck or this motherfucker just say or they just just their personality is sexy, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:Or they do shit, that's just sexy. You be like oh yeah, I want to fuck. You know what I'm saying. So like. That's why I don't know if I could really understand that whole. I've had enough pussy to last me a lifetime Because you be in different states, you be in a different state of mind than you was last month or the month before.
Speaker 2:I didn't have the skinny coochie, I didn't have the BBW coochie.
Speaker 4:I'm a BBW. We love the BBWs.
Speaker 2:I didn't have the really, really short coochie, you know what I'm saying. Like the 411 coochie you know, what I mean, the what?
Speaker 1:Hy, the, what Hype? Oh, I was about to say because I knew the 2-11 drink.
Speaker 2:Nah, you know what I'm saying. You know the yeah like peel popper pussy. You know what I'm saying. I didn't have that, so I just feel like.
Speaker 1:What's the difference?
Speaker 2:It's nothing. That's why I didn't.
Speaker 1:It's the same thing.
Speaker 2:To me, like I don't know, it has to be it's always the person I be wanna know from me, like why y'all niggas have no self-control, like what no?
Speaker 5:we got self-control. No y'all, don't niggas, don't have.
Speaker 2:No y'all don't no, y'all don't niggas, don't have self-control yes, they well man. Niggas don't have self-control. That's why niggas get caught up all the time.
Speaker 1:Niggas get caught up because they don't care.
Speaker 2:Niggas get caught up because there's no self-control. They see a fat ass and then they don't care. That's no self-control.
Speaker 1:It's the difference between having no self-control and not caring you. Not having self-control is you saying I just can't help myself, oh my God. No, having self-control is you saying I just can't help myself? Oh my God, oh man, no, no, this is a motherfucker saying hey bro, I don't give a fuck. Like for real, like okay, it's not like, or how can y'all put it. This may be something that I feel like I'll take that chance on real shit.
Speaker 1:Just just telling you from a dude's point of view. They may feel like I'm gonna take my chance on this shit, but it just ain't dudes that do that shit it's. You just can't say it's a man thing Because it's a both sexes thing. And even now like when you think about, because times have changed, so you do have women that fuck with women, and it'd be crazy because they'd be doing the same shit that niggas do. You know what I'm saying? No, we don't. Nah, they still fuck around on, they chick.
Speaker 2:No, we don't. I'ma tell you something, the only reason why we would cheat.
Speaker 1:On your girlfriend.
Speaker 2:Yeah, the only reason why I'm not a cheater I told you before that I'm a violent. I used to be a violent person. Cheating wasn't my thing, but I used to look at people who did cheat and their whole thing. It wasn't for the sexual gratification, it was because their girlfriend at home was a bitch you know what I'm saying. So they was going to talk to somebody else, you know, and they just so happened to. It started off as a conversation on the phone and then it went further than that. Exactly you know.
Speaker 2:So it wasn't the gratification. Then you got to think about it too. It's the same way with women too. In our line of business lesbian business. You know, when I was missing in our line of business, you got a lot of women out here. That's tricks.
Speaker 2:So you got a lot of women out here, that you can have a conversation with them, because we know what women want, right, so we'll run their pockets. So it's a dip. You know, I'm saying we got it's. It's, it's kind of we, we know what they want, we know what they want to hear, we know how they want to hear you know what they want. We know how they want to be treated we know everything to say and then next thing, you know it's like shit, all right, well you got what you want yeah, you get what y'all worse than us, I mean pretty, pretty much.
Speaker 1:so this is what I'm getting from what you're saying. Y'all just figure out. First of all, you, being a woman, like you said, you know what a woman want and you know a woman want to be heard. Yeah, a woman want to be listened to. A woman want to feel like she exists. A woman want to feel like somebody knows that she's there. But the crazy shit about that dudes want the same shit.
Speaker 2:Nah, because y'all niggas some of y'all niggas ain't got no game. You know, I'm saying I didn't hurt, I didn't see niggas talk to women and it's like damn dog, you ain't got no game like you.
Speaker 1:You don't know how to talk to her and I and that ain't even game. But I'm saying that's not even game. What I'm saying to you is that niggas want the same shit and I think that and this is that dudes want to feel like motherfucker I exist too oh well, yeah, we want, they want.
Speaker 2:But what I'm saying is is that it's like, yeah, y'all want to be heard and shit like that look at the way you say it like you like you don't even believe this shit.
Speaker 4:you're like, yeah, yeah, nigga, y'all want to be heard, like you don't even believe it yourself. I mean, y'all want to be heard.
Speaker 2:However, when we it's like y'all want to be alpha males too, which I wish, there is no such thing. That's another topic, Okay, okay, I'll let you. You have to go. It was a white man that came up with the term and it was due to. He came up with the term after evaluating animals. Okay. You know, in a jungle. Right. So it's like being an alpha, it's like you're an animal, you alpha, it's like you're an animal. You know, I'm saying so that the alpha male as an animal.
Speaker 1:Okay, you know he exuded, you know this dominance and this stuff. So that's where that came from so does it apply to alpha females as well?
Speaker 2:no, I, I don't believe in it. I don't. That's not, that's not a real thing to me. Okay, I just feel like everybody has masculine and everybody has feminine energy in them. I agree with you on that, you know what I mean, and a lot of women black women per se have to be more masculine Not all of them, but some of them have to be more masculine, because a lot of black men were taken away due to incarceration.
Speaker 2:You know what I'm saying. So if you raising kids, you can't just be the South feminine. You got to be the man that was supposed to be in that household.
Speaker 1:Even if the man is there, well, no, no, not if he's there, and then let's clarify Okay, okay, we going to take a break.
Speaker 2:Real quick.
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Speaker 1:We are now back at the Shit's Podcast and we and this motherfucker just talking about tricks, alpha males, alpha females, not fucking when you broke. There's all types of shit, and now B gonna explain to us why she don't believe in the whole concept of alpha males and alpha females.
Speaker 2:Okay. So before we went to break, you said you asked, you know, even if it's a man in the house. Let me say this because I hear a lot of men say this they don't have a father in the home, or if a father in the home or if a father was in the home. Understand that some men just a body, baby, they just holding up space.
Speaker 5:They don't educate.
Speaker 2:They don't discipline, they don't do nothing, they don't hold jobs, they're just a body to say that they're there. Okay, when we talk about a man in the house, we talking about a man in the house. We talking about a man in the house like, hey, I paid. It ain't even about paying, no, just no bills. But I, I have a career, I have a. You know, I'm in here disciplining my kids I have a presence, like I'm going to games. I'm doing you know doing what fathers do?
Speaker 2:I'm not just seeing you go out to work every day, sitting at home right drinking doing absolutely nothing right, just to say daddy was, daddy was that my mom and daddy was. You know, I was raising a two-parent household. He's actually raising a one-parent household, a single parent damn because your daddy wasn't shit. He was there, but he wasn't shit, right? So that's what I'm saying a lot of women have to be masculine in order to, you know, get through this world.
Speaker 1:Black women per se yeah take, take some yeah, I feel you on that.
Speaker 1:I feel, and I think the problem comes in when women don't understand, when women can't recognize what they have, when women don't understand, when women can't recognize what they have, when women think that when women mistake the man, that's actually doing something for just a body you know what I'm saying or they mistake the dude, that's just a body for a motherfucker that's actually doing something. And then I think that all falls on the whole concept of respect how you respect that man but then also how that man respects that woman. Because I think that's what we kind of, that's what our society is kind of fucked up with right now is like the roles what role do you play, what role do I play and do we respect each other's role? You know what I'm saying and I think a lot of times that's what you end up having, that you know, that's what you end up having that woman don't respect that man's role, that man don't respect that woman's role. And now you got a lot of arguing Toxicity, if I said that word correctly In the household.
Speaker 2:Okay, so have you ever heard of this thing a single married woman. Have you ever heard of that?
Speaker 1:No, not to just know. Explain elaborate.
Speaker 2:Okay, a single married woman is a woman who is actually married. However, she works a full-time job. She gets off work, she cooks. Okay, yeah, she gets off work, she cleans. Okay.
Speaker 2:Okay, or she cleans on a weekend or whatever. Once she got work, she has to take care of the kids. They got gotta get bathed. They gotta have a homework done, so she have one homework. When a man come home, all he doing is eating and taking a shower so everything else is done. So technically she is a single married woman, because that man don't help with nothing and he does pay his portion of the bills. Right, because she paying half of the bills.
Speaker 2:Get the fuck out of here she paying half of the bills, but he paying his portion, she paying her half. But guess what? She get off work at 5 o'clock. She got to pick the kids up from the daycare or wherever she got to pick them up from. She got to go home feed the kids. She got to go home and play with the kids or help them with their work.
Speaker 1:You know what I mean. Or take them to basketball games. Or take them to basketball games, or take them to cheerleading.
Speaker 2:Yeah, okay, that's all she got to do Right after she get off her eight-hour shift.
Speaker 1:Or pick them up from basketball, or pick them up from cheerleading Okay, after her eight-hour shift at, she don't get to go or her 10 hour or 10 hour. Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2:And she get home. She, you know, after she do all that, she ain't got no time for herself. The man come home, he got a hot meal, he get to sit on the couch, take a shower for a minute.
Speaker 5:The kid sleep Because they say he get off later. The kid sleep.
Speaker 2:So he ain't got nothing to do. Kiss him on the cheek and guess what? What is he doing? Wow, but oh, maybe take the. He probably got to take the garbage out, but what has he done? So could that apply to men too?
Speaker 2:that can so it can be a single father single single married father yeah, wow, single married man I've never heard that before, until you just said that yeah, because it's. It would never be if y'all have kids and the woman or the man works and y'all have to split bills and most of the work is on either or parent yeah that never will be. You know what you say split or whatever, it would never. You know what I'm saying? It would never be Equal. Equal. That y'all don't share the load. Y'all ain't sharing the load.
Speaker 1:Damn. I mean, I never heard that term before, so you know what's crazy is that damn. Wow, wow.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you just blew my mind with that one b straight up yeah, y'all don't share the load, and that's the. That's the thing. Like people talk about roles and they talk about old, traditional, they have to understand that back in the day, most of our grandparent grandmamas was not working right so they had time.
Speaker 2:They had time to cook breakfast, they had time to clean up, they had time for they sell, they had time to get the kids ready, take them a bath, do all that and they still was happy because guess what they were? They didn't have to go clock in they didn't have to play, pay, uh, pay half of the bills. That's why they was able to rub their feet, fuck him when he want to. Uh, uh, do you know?
Speaker 1:do whatever you know he needed because guess what they like they weren't working eight hours plus taking care of the kids and so if you got a motherfucker that's waking up early in the morning to take a kid to school and then coming back and taking another kid to school, then getting himself ready for work, and then going to work and working for 10 hours and then coming back and getting up and doing the same motherfucking thing, damn that's a lot thank you and then on the motherfuckers off day he is going to.
Speaker 1:He's dropping motherfuckers off at basketball practice. He's dropping motherfuckers off day he is going to. He's dropping motherfuckers off at basketball practice. He's dropping motherfuckers off at basketball games. He's dropping motherfuckers off at cheerleading. He's taking motherfuckers to doctors and dentist appointments damn feeding them helping with homework being a counselor?
Speaker 5:nobody ain't nobody and guess what.
Speaker 2:You in the same household with somebody else. What the fuck are you doing besides holy shit? And you know what a person will tell you.
Speaker 5:You know what a person will tell you.
Speaker 2:I pay. I pay my portion of the bills. Well, you know what I go. Give me, look, I'll take care of the kids myself and go get a little side hustle and you can move bitch.
Speaker 1:Wow, wow.
Speaker 2:That is fucking nuts I'm going to buy myself anyway.
Speaker 1:You are fucking phenomenal, you are. I'm so fucking glad that it came from a woman. I'm glad that just came from a woman's mouth.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I mean, it's true, I see people, men and women I see them go through this all the time, you know.
Speaker 2:I mean I see men go through this and I see women go through this and I'll be like you're married but you're single wow damn anytime, I anytime like you, seeing yourself not even getting a full eight hours of sleep, and not because you don't want to, but because you can't, when you feel like you're exhausted, when your mind, your mental can't even, you can't even regroup, because every day you're doing, you're doing the same routine. You're working 10 hours, eight to 10 hours. You're doing for the kids, you're doing this, you're doing that, and your partner is not trying to lighten that load. When you are married, y'all are a partnership, so therefore somebody y'all supposed to come together to lighten each other's load. If you're not lightening my load, then you need to go the fuck on damn, because you're probably not aligned we're not aligned, like you're not saying you know what?
Speaker 2:you just got out of work. I pick the kids up. You know, I'm saying I go, I take them to the basketball game. I do this, you know. I mean, I got the kids, I take them a bath. You just stand there like, oh well, I'm hungry, you know, uh, you cook.
Speaker 1:Wow, that's how, yeah wow, hey, that was damn b that's. Hey, we'll take a break. Uh, hey, man, shout out to no, I ain't gonna even say it. Hey, it's just podcast shot. It's the shit jaja smith.
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Speaker 1:We either shooting the shit or starting some shit. And, man, I got to give marriage props to my girl, b Carrington, for breaking that shit down because I mean, like I said, I'm so glad it came from a woman. You know what I'm saying. But you talked about companionship and what people should be doing for each other and I thought about that, like the ideal companion should be that motherfucker that you can talk to, should really be that motherfucker that you can feel like I can do anything with you. That's how it should be. You know, I'm saying I can do anything with you because we have that connection. You know, I'm saying, and I think that those are truly the relationships that motherfuckers should, that motherfuckers should appreciate and invest in. Do you think, do you think that this society nowadays, that we have those type of relationships?
Speaker 2:no, we have a pimp and hoe relationships. That's what we have. We have a and I'm not, I take it back not a trick and a hoe relate. We have those type relationships now okay, you know I'm saying because it goes from a woman. Women out here now are saying if a nigga got money, I don't care if he cheat on me. Right.
Speaker 2:That shit is bonkers to me. You know what I'm saying. So it's like I'd rather have the nigga with the money. No, he cheating. But shit, I'm taking care of you get what? I'm saying Right.
Speaker 2:Versus the man who is loyal. He may make sixty thousand dollars a year but you know he going, he trying to get his money up so he can make more. You know I mean his certificates. Whatever he trying to do, they don't want him. He ain't got no motion, he ain't got this. He can't buy the designer, he can't do that wow so really, you a hoe you looking for a treat?
Speaker 1:you dropping gems today?
Speaker 2:that, but that's the society we live in. You got me, and ain't nothing wrong with women who women, or women who want men who make a certain amount of money, but are you that type of material? And what I'm saying is is that you can't say you want a man that you can, that you can deal with no, you don't want. You say you want, I want a nigga, that's, you know, a million dollar nigga.
Speaker 2:Let's just say that for example, they say that I want a million dollar nigga. But you work at the mcdonald's, so it's something what what makes you think that you need a that a million dollar niggas for it? You know, I'm saying you need a million dollar nigga.
Speaker 2:You should get with people that's in your realm right you know, I mean, don't get me wrong, you can shoot for the stars, but if you're gonna shoot for the stars, shoot for the stars for yourself first, yeah, and then go try to search for that me, like you know. I mean, like that's how I feel, like if I was a, if you're in college, you know I'm saying that. You say you know I want a successful guy. Okay, cool, I can get that.
Speaker 2:You're in college yeah but if you're the person who is a slut, or you a hoe you know what I'm saying then how could you say that you want this type of life? You want these type of you know? I mean, you're not in that realm, right, you should date niggas in your ring.
Speaker 2:You should get you a drug dealer right you know I'm saying or um, a gangbanger or a card cracker, yeah, a card cracker or something, because that's your realm, you know. I mean, if you're the girl that don't have any aspirations and you're working at the mcdonald's and you just keep having babies, and that's, that's your life life. And you having kids by different niggas. You shouldn't want why you keep trying to shoot for the stars to get the million dollar nigga. You should just get the nigga that's the manager of the McDonald's.
Speaker 1:Or what about the one that has no kind of conversation, that has no kind of you know what I'm saying? Like no kind of interest, no kind of passions. You know what?
Speaker 2:I'm saying I think a lot of some people just don't have passion, you know, like careers, or like they have no passion for anything. You know, some people like, okay, let me go. I'm going to say, back in the day, some women aspiration was to just be a wife, right, and there's some people ask, back in the day, some women aspiration was to just be a wife, right, and that's some people ask for. That was some women aspiration, like they was like I'm gonna be a wife, you know, I'm saying I'm gonna give me a, a good husband, I'm gonna have some kids. That's what I want to do. I don't want to do nothing else. Right, that's some people aspiration. Right, and it's when you know. So that's how, that's how I feel like everybody got an aspiration. But what is the aspiration?
Speaker 2:yeah you know I'm saying you got someone that say I want to be a. You got someone who literally say I want to be a stripper and I want to you know I'm saying be a prostitute.
Speaker 5:That's their aspiration you got people that say that well, you know, you got, you got people that say that wow, you know, you got, you know you got people that say that you know what I'm saying it just so that's their aspiration.
Speaker 2:I think everybody got separate. You just gotta figure out if you're dating that person, what, what is it?
Speaker 1:that they want. What are their true like? What are their it that they want? What is it that they want what, what, what are what are their true like? What are their true goals?
Speaker 2:yeah, I'm saying like and I feel like people be lying, like I feel like people should tell people what they want. And I say back in the day because remember how rich niggas were back in the day like they'll tell you, I want a trophy wife right people don't do that no more.
Speaker 2:And a trophy wife will say well, I want a rich nigga, right, a rich man. Don't stop saying a rich man. I want a rich man, okay, and I want a trophy wife. You stay fine, you have my kids, I'm gonna do what I want to do, but you're gonna be well draped up and take care of and she cool with it, but they they discussed that. She know that now people getting into these situations and they thinking it's love and that's not what it really was right that's not what it is.
Speaker 2:You were just a trophy wife, a trophy wife or he was a rich man you was a rich man right damn people.
Speaker 1:Just be honest now that part right there, really be like I think that's a difficult part for some people is really being transparent, like this is what I want. You know I'm saying like I know, at this phase of my life, this is what I want. Can you provide that? If you can't, I ain't mad at you, but I don't want to waste my time and I don't want to waste your time, you know, know what I'm saying. So if and that's why I said the whole thing about finding that person that you feel like you can be your genuine self, you can be your genuine self, and then it's even better when both of y'all can be yourselves together you know what I'm saying Because I feel like in that kind of situation, you know, you can kind of do whatever because y'all, y'all cool, y'all discussed that. You see what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:It don't matter what everybody, what everybody else is doing, this is what we doing. You get what I'm saying. This is what we doing and we cool with it. You know what I'm saying. Not only are we cool with it, this works for us. You know, like this, this is what really, really drives us. But when you're not honest about that, then on one end somebody feel like yeah, it drives me. But the other person is like I don't really dig this shit.
Speaker 1:You know what I'm saying but you got to be honest about it and I think that's the problem that people come into the communication piece, how it's so hard for people to really communicate and, in a sense, really be vulnerable about what it is you're feeling. And Gordo said it. I think Gordo said it best. He was like in a relationship we'd be trying to control shit. But a relationship needs the opposite. It needs trust. Trust is the opposite of control. If you have trust, you don't have control, and if you have control, you. It needs trust. Trust is the opposite of control. If you have trust you don't have control.
Speaker 1:And if you have control, you don't have trust. I thought that shit was deep as fuck, and I mean that.
Speaker 2:That is true. You know what I'm saying, that's true. I that is a true saying. I just feel like, when it comes down to communication and stuff like that, I feel and stuff like that, I feel like a lot of times, um, people are soft, you know. I mean like like okay, so you can like me, I'm not a I'm not a real a soft person. You know I'm soft, but I'm not soft, so you can tell me pretty much anything you know I mean I'm gonna accept it right, or at least listen.
Speaker 2:Well, yeah, at least listen. And when I say accept it, I mean like shit gonna accept that right, or at least listen. Well, yeah, at least listen. And when I say accept it, I mean like shit, you tell me it is what it is. It ain't nothing I can do about it.
Speaker 2:Let's stay or go right all right, but nowadays people are so soft that you can tell them you know this not working out. You know, I mean I think we should. You know, I don't want to hurt you, I just want to think we should part ways you know, I mean they will kill you.
Speaker 2:You know I mean I think we should. You know, I don't want to hurt you, I just want to think we should part ways. You know what I mean. They will kill you, you know. I mean they'll harm you at least. So fuck up your crib, your car. You know I mean it's like people nowadays, it's they're too emotional and not logical. People are very emotional. It's like I don't know how to explain it, but it's just a very, yes, no balance, it's like it's not.
Speaker 2:This is a very emotional, soft society yeah you can't really just be open and honest with people because they take things to the heart. You know I'm saying they think people are not good with rejection. People are not good with rejection, people are not good with like back in the day you could tell somebody, a man could tell a woman, I'm not ready for no relationship. But you know we can do our thing. You know we can kick it, you know do whatever, and a woman would be.
Speaker 2:some women, not all. Some women be like all right, cool, and they won't get attached to that. But now a man could tell a woman that and the next thing you know she's telling the world on social media that you didn't lie to her play with her feelings. You didn't do it out there, you like but I told, you, but I told you. So what are you talking about? Right I mean you, you kind of. I mean in so many words.
Speaker 1:No, I directly told you directly told you yeah, you led me on, yeah, you led me on.
Speaker 2:I didn't lead you on. It's not even the case.
Speaker 1:I told you exactly in the door what it was Right yeah.
Speaker 2:So it's kind of like to me. It's like this society is just a little soft you know, what I'm saying. It's a little too emotional. It's just too emotional. They get attached with whoever they I guess you know the sleep with. I guess you could say you know what I mean.
Speaker 1:Right, see, don't fuck broke, that's what we're talking about. Don't fuck broke and hungry, that's the motto for tonight. Hey, y'all, we'll take a break real quick and we'll come right back. Yo y'all shout out to B-Country, b-country, be dropping gems on y'all motherfuckers and be sounding cold as hell with that Memphis AS attitude. It's just podcast y'all. It's the shit.
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Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, we are not back, it's just podcast. And yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, we are not back. This is just podcast. And hey, y'all I got to say tonight we even dropped some gems, real shit. I think you should be a motherfucking counselor, a relationship counselor.
Speaker 2:No, no, I tell people, man, follow your, your heart, I don't have anything to do with it. Um, I, because I feel like I can't counsel nobody relationship. You know I'm saying, I know my relationship ain't perfect. You know I'm saying so, I know I just can't counsel nobody, in that I cannot tell, I can't, I just feel. I just feel that way like I cannot tell you what to do with your relationship. Or I can't even counsel you because in my, in my eyes, some of the stuff that people be beefing over in their relationships is trivial and I think it's stupid and I mess around. Tell somebody like this is stupid yeah, so uh, hmm yeah, I think it's about what people choose to accept.
Speaker 1:You know what I'm saying. Like some people they might, I ain't accepting that shit. You know what I'm saying. Like I'm, I'm just not. I just can't do it. But other people may feel like that don't bother me. Like when you said the whole thing about cheating. It's some motherfuckers that cheating is like the ultimate no-no, I'm out after that. But then I know some motherfuckers will be like all right, you know what I'm saying. Mistakes happen. But if it's, it may be some shit about the finances and that may be. I can't do this.
Speaker 1:You know, what I'm saying. That's what I can't take. You know what I'm saying? That's the part I can't take. Oh, I don't give a fuck, I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 5:But I can't do it.
Speaker 1:You know I'm saying but I think it's just about, it's just about that person. You know I'm saying, but that's why I said the whole concept of finding that person. That's you. You can't. You gotta. You got somewhat of a good understanding of them. You know I what I'm saying. So then you don't get shit misunderstood. Like the communication is there, you get it, and not only can you say can y'all talk about anything, it's easier to digest. You know what I'm saying. So a person can say something to you and you don't take it so personal, you know, because you feel like. I know this is not coming from a place of spite. I know this is not coming from a place of malice. This is you saying, this is just a concern for me and I'm saying this to you because I want things to be better, you know.
Speaker 2:So yeah, that's true, and I think that sometimes in relationships, I think that people um, they don't tell their partners the truth, um, about how they feel and about how they feel, they kind of tiptoe around it. You know, um, they kind of act like passive, aggressive about it. You know, um, and I'm like I feel, like I don't give a damn. I'm gonna tell you how I feel and you can ask. You can ask, don, I'm gonna tell you how I feel, regardless, right? You know how you take it, how you feel.
Speaker 2:That has nothing to do with me right um, because I'm the type of person that if I don't say how I feel, I'm never going. It's not going to rest. I'm not going to rest, right, so I have to talk to you. But on the other hand, he the type of person that he will tiptoe, tiptoe, tiptoe, tiptoe. Yeah. You know what I'm saying he don't Not me Fuck that. Because I feel like we've grown.
Speaker 1:Fuck your feelings.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's like we've grown. Right. If it's something that we need to talk, I'm going to talk to you about your feelings mean shit to me when I have something on my mind. Now I'm not going to say it a certain way if I know that you'll take it a certain way, but I'm going to figure out a way to tell you.
Speaker 2:But I'm going to figure out a way to tell you, but I am going to tell you. You know what I'm saying. Whether I got to pull you to the side, I don't care if we at your mama house we going to go to the backyard I have. I'm that type of person Like we could be at a restaurant, we could be wherever, If it's. I have to talk to you about something because you just did some. You did something to to me. I'm going to pull you to the side and I'm going to talk to you about it.
Speaker 1:Right then and there. Right then and there, as you should, as you should. I feel like the only I think the only challenge with that is finding those words in the moment. You know what I'm saying, Because sometimes people may feel like it's best for you to like chill for a minute until you can think of the right words to say to somebody. You know what I'm saying, Because if you are already pissed or how they say, in the psychological realm, in crisis mode, it's hard. Like, what are you really going to hear? You know what I'm saying. Like if you're already overwhelmed, you're already thinking the motherfucker out to get you, you feel like you've got to defend yourself and all this other type of shit, what are you really going to hear from that other person? You know so sometimes some people may say it might be best to not say it in a moment because it's not going to be they're not going to be receptive of what you just said.
Speaker 2:And I'm the type I don't care if you're receptive, that's for you to figure out. I just want to get up off my chest, you. I'm saying I'm not, I'm not asking you for the. I'm not asking you to be receptive. I'm just saying, if you're going to, I'm just going to tell you how I feel. Whether you accept, whether you were accepted, that's on you, but I told you whether I got to text it to you. I didn't sit there and text him while we was in church. You, know what I'm saying so.
Speaker 2:It's like whether I got to text it to you. You know what I'm saying. Write it down to you. Whether you accept it or receptive, that is solely on you, right. But I'm not going to walk around with it on my shoulders.
Speaker 1:I don't want to hold it on me. I feel the same way gonna walk around with.
Speaker 2:I don't want to hold it on me.
Speaker 1:I feel the same way. Yeah, I'm not gonna walk around with it, I don't want to keep that shit on me. And sometimes some people may feel like but that might be kind of selfish. You know, saying that you feel like I just don't want to keep this shit on me. You know saying like so if you feel it, if you agree with it, that's cool, if you don't, I'm gonna say it anyway. But you also also got to think about how effective is it If that person's not going to be receptive to it, then how effective is? I won't say how effective is it for you to say it, but you just say it. Your whole thing is I'm just trying to get this shit off me. I don't want to keep walking around with this shit on me and feeling this way and feeling like I got to hold this shit in. So that's why I'm fucking saying something. Hopefully you can respond to it and be like okay, I agree or disagree, but if you don't, okay see, and that is something that I am.
Speaker 2:I'm gonna say this I am trying to on you know, caring more about how people feel. I'm trying to work on it. You know what I mean, because in our reality I don't, and so I'm trying. I'm trying to work on it, and I'm saying that because I know that it does affect. I know it affects my husband, I know it affects my child, because my whole aspect of life is I'm like my mom. I'm gonna keep it real with you because I feel like the world ain't and I feel like you're not going to. You keep walking around doing the same thing, or you didn't piss me off because you didn't did it. I'm gonna have to talk. I just going to tell you what it is. Right.
Speaker 2:The world may not tell you what it is I done lost plenty of friends Like I don't give a damn if you never talk to me again. Right. Just know that that last memory was me telling you how the fuck I felt.
Speaker 1:That's dope.
Speaker 2:You know what I'm saying. Whether we talk again or not, that has nothing to do with me. Baby, right, because I died, I came here to by myself. I'm gonna leave by myself. That's a good point. Nobody's leaving with me, so I have to. I. I've always been like that, you know. I'm saying that, that's you know. And I'm gonna say this because Because even at work I have to figure out was called into a meeting with HR Because I did.
Speaker 2:I talked to my supervisor and I did tell him I feel like he was racist. See, some people ain't going to tell their supervisor that. But I told him I feel like he was racist. I said you keep talking about my tone, my voice, whatever you want to talk. I said I feel like you're racist. I said'm from the country. I said and I just I'm a black girl, you know, I'm saying, and I feel like I was racist. It felt like you're racist. He told hr and hr asked me. Well, he said that you felt like he was racist. I said I did. What can y'all do about this? Right, maybe his feelings hurt, maybe he not racist, I don't know. But that's how I felt and I pulled him to the side to talk to him about it.
Speaker 1:Right, it ain't like you called him a crack ass cracker.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I just said we was in a meet. I pulled him to the side and I said you know, I just kind of feel like you, you you, you're racist, Damn.
Speaker 1:Hey, we're going to take a break, y'all. Hey, yo shout out to all the motherfuckers out there that be telling their supervisors how they feel and then they get pulled into HR because somebody said you slashed their motherfucking tires and you didn't even get a chance to check their motherfucking cameras. Anyway, it's just podcast y'all. It's the shit.
Speaker 5:This comedian, Marnie P, checking in from the Shits Podcast.
Speaker 1:Hey, yeah, we are now back at the Shits Podcast and, yeah, we just can't call the motherfucker con.
Speaker 2:It's conery, it was conery.
Speaker 1:You can't, I mean, you just can't.
Speaker 2:I told him he was shucking in job that man. He was my DM district manager. Oh, you can't do that with me. He wanted to cuss me out. So bad, but you know, if he would have cussed he would lost his job right, but I'm like I'm talking to him and I'm saying it's giving conery, you're shucking and jiving that's what you're doing.
Speaker 1:It was the way you said it, like you said it professionally.
Speaker 2:You called him a professional coon no, I just said he was, his name was marcus, fuck him. He from chicago too. So he was like shucking and jiving for the white people. So I was like oh, I, I, me and him got into we was talking and I said I just feel like you, you know it's full of coonery, you know I'm saying I said you full of coonery and you like to shuck and jive for the white folks when it come to black people. I said nigga, you was from englewood, you was from the hood, you know I'm saying so, coming up here trying to be a coon and smacking these white people's face and do all that, but then you treating us a certain way. I said shit, it ain't what it is. And then, of course, hr, hr and I told her exactly what I said, and she said you know, you can't really say it.
Speaker 1:Girl, you're so fat ass, Told you, you can't really say get your fat ass up, you gotta find a different way. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2:I called her fat and I got fired.
Speaker 1:I did get fired at least you learned something from it. I didn't. I'll do it again. Hey y'all listen. I want to tell y'all this. This platform hey y'all listen. I want to tell y'all this this platform has always been therapeutic for me because I get the opportunity to talk my shit. Tonight B got the opportunity to really talk her shit and really show y'all what she really bring to this podcast. She ain't been on like the last two episodes and she came back with a vengeance. She came back with fire in this motherfucker. Hey y'all listen.
Speaker 1:Search for real-ass people. Search for real-ass relationships. Be honest with motherfuckers. Be as honest as possible. Be as honest as possible. Be as honest as possible. Communicate with people. Put that shit out there. If people don't like it, guess what? That ain't on you no more. You see what I'm saying. But if you just keep holding it in and faking it, you know I'm saying eventually that shit got to come out and I think that's what a lot of motherfuckers, uh, experience. You know I'm saying like you left theuckers experience. You know what I'm saying. Like you, let the facade go on for too long. You know what I'm saying. I get it when you first meet somebody. It's the new, you, you know what.
Speaker 1:I'm saying but at some point you got to ease in. Nigga, I do this. You know what I'm saying. I dig in my nose when I'm driving, whatever the fuck it is. You know what I'm saying. I get tissue. But you know what I'm saying. Whatever it is, but you got to let the real you come out, and I think that'd be the problem motherfuckers be experiencing. So I learned a lot tonight. I'm definitely going to reevaluate if I'm a fuck when I'm broke. Hopefully I don't be broke. Definitely going to reevaluate that.
Speaker 1:The whole single parent, father single parent single married single, single married father, single married mother concept, which is fucking dope. I think a lot of people need to think about that. And yeah, I mean I just really appreciate what you did tonight, Like you really dropped some shit.
Speaker 2:And before we get ready to get out of here, I do want to um, get on some. I do want to say this. It's a very serious note y'all quit popping these pills. People are losing their lives. They are lacing these pills with fentanyl. Okay, people are dying at 17 18. You know I'm saying their hearts are stopping. Stop popping these pills. And if y'all are around people, that goes to the point of having people around you I you shouldn't want a yes man around you. If somebody see you nodding off because you taking pills or you taking any type of drugs, and they still want to be your friend, they still yes, okay, that's cool, stop kicking it with them.
Speaker 2:But also they can't tell a grown motherfucker what to do. You know what I'm saying. However, y'all, it's really bad. A young lady by the name of Enchanting. She was signed to 1017. She wasn't signing them at this time, but she lost her life from perks, a bad pill. She was only 26 years old. My, you know somebody that I know back from memphis, two people that I grew up with. They lost their lives from pills, from a pill, not even pills, it's one a pill, but they were pill poppers anyway you get.
Speaker 2:I'm saying so it's bad pills going around. Stay away from them, stop doing them.
Speaker 1:You know, I'm saying like seriously it's they've been, they cut within now hey, uh, be careful, be careful what you put in your body real shit. Um, yeah, I I'll be scared of this shit. Like I don't pop no pills, I, it's just certain shit that I just can't do, I don't want to do. But like I'm not gonna say can't because I hate I hate using the word can't, it's just shit that I won't do. I just feel like it's not, it's not safe, um, so, yeah, y'all watching pills real shit. I know y'all want to get high, I know y'all. You know y'all want to take y'all problems away for a little while. But guess what, when your ass come down off them pills, the problem still be right there waiting for your ass straight up. Instead, try to get some fucking therapy. Yeah, that shit to get your ass high. Yeah, for real. Um, read a book. Yeah, straight up, read a book exercise exercise.
Speaker 2:I'll up Read a book Exercise, exercise. I was going to just say that Exercise, exercise.
Speaker 1:Straight up. That shit will get your ass feeling high as hell Rejuvenated. You know what I'm saying and bust a nut Shit Unless you broke. But then shit, you can always. You can masturbate if you broke. You know what I'm saying. Some people might feel like they don't want to do that if they broke. Homeless motherfuckers don't masturbate. Anyway, y'all know where to find us. Y'all can find us on Spotify, apple Podcasts anywhere you get your podcasts at, let them know where to find you and on social media B.
Speaker 2:You can find me on Instagram at BCarrington underscore, and you can find me on TikTok at bcarrington underscore, and you can find me on TikTok at b will be Carrington on TikTok.
Speaker 1:Y'all know y'all can find me at monsoons to raw. That's S-T-A-R-A-W. On Facebook and on Instagram, not on TikTok, because this is just the shits podcast S-H-I-T-T-S shit. You can also find me in the streets. No, don't look at me in the streets, you back outside, oh my.
Speaker 1:God, long story, b Long story. But yeah, hey, we appreciate anybody that check in with the Shits Podcast, anybody that tune in, anybody that tell anybody else to tune in. We definitely appreciate it. Shout-out to my man, deca Durs. Shout out to my man, Don. Shout out to my man, mark G. Yo, and let me tell y'all something Shit about to get hot. That's all I'm saying. It's about to get hot. We got Deca Durs, we got Mark G, we got Il Gordon, we got Vail DeGeneral, we got Vail the General, we got Andreas Haley. It's about to be nasty, y'all.
Speaker 1:But, anyway, I ain't going to speak too much on that. Y'all, make sure y'all tune in. Make fans, not followers. Followers will get you clout, fans will get you work. Respect the process. Understand that the only thing that happens overnight is dreaming, slobbing and them babies, and we up out here, y'all.