The S.H.I.T.T.S Podcast
The S.H.I.T.T.S Podcast
Boundaries, Fatherhood, And Finding Yourself
What if the biggest drain on your life is being “overly accessible”? We kick off with a raw check-in that flips the script on generosity and boundaries, then move through a life lived at full volume: growing up in South Dorchester, becoming a father young, and choosing values over vibes. The stories are sharp and funny, but the lessons cut deeper—protect your time, know your worth, and give your best to people who truly earn it.
Nick T brings a wild arc: Division I athlete, young husband and dad, security pro, live streamer turned top 10 percent podcaster. He opens up about donating a kidney to his best friend’s son and the brutal aftermath—sepsis, hospital stays, and choosing loyalty anyway. Along the way we unpack a real-world safety playbook for daughters on campus and in cities today, from rideshare risks to tracking tech and social engineering in public spaces. It’s actionable, honest, and built from experience in security staffing.
Then we wade into the online dating trenches. Catfish tactics, “travels for work” euphemisms, babysitter-payment scams, and the surprisingly high cost of modern courtship collide with practical rules that work: verify on video, never send money, spot red flags fast, and keep your standards. From there, we trace Nick’s pivot from streaming burnout and clout-chasing to podcasting with purpose—creating community, amplifying other creators, and staying grounded when the numbers start popping.
If you’re juggling fatherhood, dating, and creative work while trying to stay true to yourself, this one hits home. Tap play, share it with a friend who needs tougher boundaries, and drop a review so more people can find the show. Subscribe for more candid conversations on relationships, safety, culture, and building a life that actually fits.
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Yeah, what the deal is. Y'all know what it is. It is his podcast, where we either shoot a shit, starting some shit, or picking up a shit left off. I'm your host, DJ, my songs to Rod, the dopest DJ you heard thus far. The dopest host you heard thus far, whatever you want to call it. Anyway, this week on the podcast, um Have a Cool Dude. He is a uh podcaster himself. He's also a streamer. Uh he's done some um some generous things for the people we love. I'm gonna get into that. And um man, I thought I I thought he was gonna come through the phone and or through the email and choke me because it you know had to get myself together. But um with no further ado, I won't try to give it up for the one, the only Nick T y'all. Yo, what up, my guy? How you feel?
SPEAKER_06:Man, you know I'm there, I'm living it. One one day at a time.
SPEAKER_08:Okay, okay, that's all we can do, right?
SPEAKER_06:Right foot, left foot.
SPEAKER_08:There you go. There you go. What kind of ad is that, bro?
SPEAKER_06:It's a major league, it's a new era, but it's uh it's uh fitted, it's got all the major league teams on it.
SPEAKER_08:Okay, okay. So with that being said, man, who you going for in the World Series?
SPEAKER_06:You know, uh it's tough because you know everybody wants to go with the Dodgers, but I like to see Vlad Jr. get a World Series ring in Toronto. I like to go with the underdogs.
SPEAKER_08:Okay, okay, that's cool. Um, so on the podcast, man, we'd like to uh ask this question. We'd like to do a check-in with our guests. And since you are the phenomenal guest this week, always ask the question, man, what are you working on? So I'm when I say what are you working on, I don't mean like uh a musical project, a book, and I like that. What are you working on internally? What are you working on emotionally?
SPEAKER_06:Not too much accessibility. I guess my I'm overly accessible.
SPEAKER_08:Okay, okay, I like that. I like that.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, I'm overly accessible, so I'm trying to work on accessibility and lit and not that's not limiting to the people that need me, that's just limiting it to the bill to the bullshit.
SPEAKER_08:Damn, damn, I needed to hear that, bro. I ain't gonna need cuts. I needed to hear that, man.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, because you know there's people that you give access to because they need you, and and those are people that deserve it, but then we give ourselves too much accessibility to the bullshit.
SPEAKER_08:Damn, you're so right. Thank you, man. For honestly, real shit, man. With everything that's been happening today, man, and the way that I've been feeling, I really needed to hear that, bro. Real shit. I appreciate it.
SPEAKER_06:You're welcome because you know what, like good dudes are good dudes, and you know, we try to we try to sometimes overcompensate, and that's by giving accessibility to the people that bring the bullshit to us. You're not a bad dude because you cut out the bullshit and you limit that accessibility.
SPEAKER_08:Yeah, yeah. You know what? My brother and I was having that kind. My brother and I was having a conversation about that the other day, and um you put a lot of stuff into perspective and you just said that. Um, where you from, bro?
SPEAKER_06:I'm uh I'm originally from South Dorchester, Boston.
SPEAKER_08:Okay, okay. Never heard of it, but I mean it's a lot of places I never heard of.
SPEAKER_06:Okay, so I'm from South Boston. Um, I grew up in one of the toughest neighborhoods in Boston.
SPEAKER_08:Okay, okay. So, with that being said, how do you think your environment has affected the adult you have become?
SPEAKER_06:Because I grew up in an environment where a lot of people had two choices, just like a lot of hoods, where you either strive to survive or and and thrive, or you turn around and you fall into the bullshit and you end up either dead or in jail.
SPEAKER_08:Right, right, right.
SPEAKER_06:I mean, I come from the same neighborhood as Mark Wahlberg, and he was in jail at 18 for a hate crime.
SPEAKER_08:I didn't know it was for a hate crime.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, he beat up two Vietnamese guys because they walked through South Dorchester. He beat up two Vietnamese guys with a stick and put one dude into a coma. The other dude he just beat him bad, but the other dude he put into a coma. That's why he got sent to a man's prison at 17.
SPEAKER_08:I did not fucking know that. Oh wow. Um, yeah, I did not know that. Damn.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, that's why he was fighting for it about a decade to go to get expunged from his record. He wanted to be pardoned, and the state of mass wouldn't do it. And he was like, uh, never mind, never mind. You know, he was trying to be a good image for his kids.
SPEAKER_08:Yeah, yeah, yeah. Might as well become an actor, fuck it. You know what I'm saying? You know, right?
SPEAKER_06:Become a rapper, then an actor.
SPEAKER_08:Yeah, yeah, yeah. So I was um reading on your profile. You were talking about online dating. Um I I haven't I haven't really, I don't, I don't think I've ever been on an online dating site, right? So let me ask you this question first. Can you remember your first date, period?
SPEAKER_06:Hell no, no. No, no, no. I just got high, I just got highlights of all the rough ones.
SPEAKER_08:You said all the rough ones.
SPEAKER_06:Yo, I'm not dating ended up being a thing where I started doing it for the fun stories. Okay, like it ended up like, okay, so like I went to Arizona State, I was a division one baseball pitcher and I pitched. My daughter's a freshman this year at San Diego State, where she's gonna hoop, she's gonna play ball. She's looking at PT and serious PT. I mean, my daughter's five, ten and a half point guard, okay. I don't know if she's Clay Caitlin Clark, but she definitely page Bukers. But but she definitely can hoop. But my thing is this, right? So when I was at Arizona State, it was cool. Like my last year, people started like talking about dating sites, but I never did it because I had my daughter at 18. So like I was with my daughter's mother through college and we were married at 21. But like we got divorced at 22 and some change. And by 23, I checked out the dating scene on POF, and it was cool back then because like you had a lot of baddies that were like not trying to be caught dating online, so they did it looking for a serious relationship, or and then it turned into where people were just looking for fun, but like it was a different era, and so like I got a lot of quality dates out of that with a and it started becoming like I went into it with the mentality that I wanted to settle down again because I had a daughter, I just started my security staffing firm because I do music festivals and concerts and strip clubs and stuff, and I wanted to settle, yeah, yeah. So I wanted to like settle down a little bit, like I do iHeart Radio, Coachella, Lollapalooza. So like I wanted to like you know, cool down and get into a relationship. Then I started seeing the girls were you know using me too for sex. So I'm like, oh, this is what we're doing now.
SPEAKER_08:Hey man, never never have I have I ever thought that I would hear man saying that a woman has used him for sex, yeah.
SPEAKER_06:You know what I mean? Like that we started getting used, and then all of a sudden I was like, this is the origin of my villain story, this is where I became savage.
SPEAKER_08:Hey man, and you know the the the beauty about that, man, is everybody has origins on it, everybody does, and that's where yes, because I heard you say that you uh you said you got the you got married at 21, yeah, and divorced at like 20. What in your opinion? Because we can't speak about her opinion. In your opinion, why did you get divorced?
SPEAKER_06:I got divorced because it was the fact that we were too young, okay. Like it's kind of like you know what I mean. Like she got pregnant two months into dating. I won't lie, I was one of those 18-year-olds. I was like, yo, I don't have to wear a condom. Oh, cool, I'm in. And like then one day, like I caught yo, like it was the full game, was real weak. Then one day I caught her dropping her birth control down the sink. Oh shit, yeah, and she was a trust fund baby. Like, I ain't gonna lie, her mom's a top 20 chef in Chile, Corma Trigueros, and her dad's the president of Canagra Foods. Like, I think she thought with money coming from a trust fund baby mu you know, family that you know, she was gonna turn around and have a baby, and then all of a sudden, like it was gonna be she was the favorite child, and it was it was a different type thing. So, like it was like my daughter forced us together because I loved my daughter and she changed my life, which is why I got full custody when she was five, but it wasn't the same for her mother, like her mother was raised by a nanny, so she knew what it was, she didn't know what it was to be an involved parent. For me, my parents were divorced, but both my parents were involved parents, and I believe that's why we got divorced so fast. She loved me, she loved being Nick Taylor's, you know, girl, but she didn't love being a mother, and I liked her, but I loved being a father.
SPEAKER_08:Bro, I love that, I love that, and I feel like uh I feel like I can god damn, I feel like I can relate to that so much because I have three kids and I I love being a father, you know, um, and a part of that is because I know what it felt like to not have a father there. You know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_06:Which is not talked about on the other side.
SPEAKER_08:No, no, no, no, no, no, not at all. Um uh not at all. I don't I don't think it's talked about, but then again, bro, I think that as men, uh as men, it's we have so many strikes against us, especially black men, let's be an honest. Um as men, we have so many strikes against us that for one you can't be vulnerable. Well, you're not supposed to be vulnerable. Um and always say that women and children are the only people, are the only ones that are loved unconditionally. For a man, you have to be provided something. If you're not providing anything, then like you're damn near useless. You know what I'm saying? But that's just my opinion. So when I hear you say what you say about um your love of being a father, I definitely identify with that. Um so I want to ask you, man. So you you only got one daughter, right? Yes, my only child. So what has in to you, what has been the greatest joy of having a daughter?
SPEAKER_06:No, honestly, it would have to be turning around and watching my daughter bust a girl's nose in the AAU basketball. Okay, because I was a hooper and like I played three sports in that in high school, I was a football, baseball, basketball player. So, to me, that competitive edge is in me. So, to watch this girl slap my daughter's wrist all gain reaching and then watching my daughter get a rebound, and even though you and I know it's it's clean basketball to swing your elbows to clear the ball out before passing, that girl was just a little too close, and she caught an elbow to the nose, and then her dad came down and was like, yo, get that goon off the court. I said, What? And I almost thought a dude in Virginia over it. Like, like, and my best friends, like, you talk about the black man culture. I know the black man culture well because my best friend who I gave a kidney to his son is African American. My best friends also are my two other best friends are black more, my friend Day Day and my friend Lamar Greer. His dad played at Florida State and was an all-American. Okay, and his and his cousins Lynn Greer that played for Temple and went to the league.
SPEAKER_08:So you you spoke about uh one of the greatest joys of having a daughter. What has been your biggest concern with having a daughter?
SPEAKER_06:Like everything, today's society has enhanced my concerns. Okay, you and I grew up in a different era, okay. When you wanted to fight somebody, you shot the fade in the street and it was over with. You fight someone today, and someone's pulling out you know, a glove. It is what it is, it's a different day. You know, I I worry now because having a daughter poses different threats. Now you got people out there, you know, Uber drivers that are trying to chloroform girls in the back of a car.
SPEAKER_08:Oh shit.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, down in Nashville. It I mean, it's happened other places, but there's a big social media influencer that's a friend of mine, and she had it was running a video live on Instagram, and the dude turned around, covered his face with his sleeve, and turned on the air conditioner. It smelled sweet. She knew instantly it was chloroform. He she's lucky he didn't lock the window. She rolled down her window and opened the door from the outside and ran through traffic. Damn that's crazy, yeah. And then you had the people on Indeed that were trying to go for jobs, and 16 women went missing.
SPEAKER_07:I heard about that, I heard about that shit.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, and then uh, you know, of course, as a dude, I'm like, did common sense kick in? Like, was your head on a swivel? Because if I pulled up to a building and saw two cars and it was pitch black, I don't know if I'll walk in. Like, I'd have to know the situation. Do you know what I mean? But like they still were looking, they took advantage of people that were looking for work, and 16 women went missing. You got bathrooms that got locks on the outside down by Texas AM. Only the girls' bathroom has a lock from the outside where you can lock someone in the bathroom, not the men's, only the women's. And ironically, 400 women went missing in that area. So, like, yeah, I worry being in the security staffing firm business and then watching these PSEs while I'm getting recertified. And I'm like, now people are putting money in stores and they're turning around and putting like a like a chemical that when you pick up the money, it like within three to five minutes disorient you almost like chloroform. They're putting it on money and leaving it on the floor in convenience stores in Walmarts. They're air podting women's cars, like it's crazy. So there's there's those things I worry because my daughter, you know, is a female that obviously I know my daughter is beautiful, so it worries me with her in public around today's situation. So I told her when she went to San Diego State, I said, listen, you find the biggest football player, you become friends with him, and you just hang out with his guys. You go get an Uber, you you get one of them to go with you. Like you guys start, you know, wondering about who you keep around you now. It's just wild. And you and I didn't have those days. I grew up with days where like drinking jungle juice and then you know, passing. Oh, yeah. Oh yeah.
SPEAKER_08:Some shit I can't remember about the party, but other shit I could, yeah.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, yeah, so funny. Like your typical white boy. I was like, yo, I walked up. My best friend's Panamanian in black, so like I he makes jungle juice like a champ. And I turned around, I was like, yo, and I'm eating the fruit, right? Which you know is the most potent and acid.
SPEAKER_08:That's right, that's the most important part about it.
SPEAKER_06:And I'm eating and I'm eating the fruit, right? And I down three cups like in 20 minutes, and he's like, bro, you gotta slow down. I'm like, nah, bro, yo, I'm from ASU. I'm a frat boy. I got this. Yo, I kid you not, I can't scatterbow in the outside. My best friend who was in the army just bulldozed him over. Big dude, right? My boy Dewan. I was like, yo, I'm gonna fight you. And he just sat there laughing at me, like, man, you better just back up, and I'm like, and then I just laughed it off, and then that night, like I passed out in the yard, and I don't remember anything after that.
SPEAKER_08:Oh wow, sometimes those are the best nights, man. Thank God. Yo, you know what?
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, you know what I tell everybody, right? Well, we grew up in those times where there was no cell phones, or no cell phones with cameras, so like you know what I mean? Like, people weren't taking pictures, and thank god, because like all the best nights I ever had, I remember none of.
SPEAKER_08:Right, you know, I'd be thinking about that shit, bro. It's like if some of these kids nowadays realize the shit they mama did when they was younger, they look at them the same way. Like we ain't like you said, we ain't had camera phones, so we couldn't record that shit and keep it. But if some of them kids knew what their mama was doing, they'll probably look at them differently.
SPEAKER_06:You know what I mean? Like, I went to a party with my best friend once. We showed up, and within five minutes, upstairs in the bedroom, we hear shit banging. We walk up there. Could you not? It's this Puerto Rican chick and this half black girl with a weave fighting, and the Puerto Rican chick ripped her weave off the hair, and she slayed the girl into the nightstead. Uh, now I'm thinking, yo, if I had a cell phone, that shit would have been on Instagram.
SPEAKER_08:Definitely would have been on World Star. Let it know somebody's real, bro. Let it know somebody's real, and you tell that they must have been rookies because you suppose tie that weave up before you start fighting. Everybody know that.
SPEAKER_06:Oh, they were definitely rookies, but uh, you know, it's that don't start something if you don't want something type shit.
SPEAKER_08:That's true, that's true. So you spoke about donating a kidney, which I gotta commend you for, bro. Like, because that's that's that that's that's very courageous and very generous. What made you confident enough to donate a kidney?
SPEAKER_06:Because my best friend, who is my best friend still to this day, has been my rider die for 23 years since we were 13. Okay, when he moved from the Bronx to Boston, and I'll tell you like it does not matter anything that has ever tried to hurt me, anything that's ever popped off, he has been there. Anytime I've been down, he has been there. Never ever has loyalty been an issue, and I know and I can say with confidence that if it was my daughter, he would have been on that table just as fast. And that's why I did it, even though we were best friends, and you know, just like regular shit, right? Y'all have a beef, and the one time we had a beef, he was actually close to I owned a house and he rented a house on the same block, and for that one year he lived near me. We definitely did not talk over a girl problem, but he is now he, and that was like 13 years, like 14 years ago, and he is still my best friend to this day, and that's why I did it, and without hesitation.
SPEAKER_08:Damn, that's beautiful.
SPEAKER_06:Meaning, as and you know, as an African-American, you guys have a higher risk of sickle cell, and his son has sickle cell, amongst other things, yeah. And and and because his son had sickle cell that he needed organ, that's why he got my kidney.
SPEAKER_08:Man, that's beautiful, bro. I commend you for that, man. I commend you for that. Um, what was the recovery time like?
SPEAKER_06:Still doing it at times, to be honest. I mean, I just got out the hospital about a month ago because I had an infection. I've had sepsis seven times in the last year.
SPEAKER_08:Damn, sorry to hear that.
SPEAKER_06:I mean, I've had complications, and I mean, if you even research it, the donor the donors have a higher like risk of having complications than the recipients.
SPEAKER_08:Damn, so you literally put your life on the line for somebody else.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, I mean, I flatlined twice with sepsis.
SPEAKER_08:Oh, wow.
SPEAKER_06:I mean, it's been bad, bad. So, like, and my best friend, anytime I'm in the hospital, brings me what I want. I know he feels some guilt about it. I tell him not to, even if I needed a can't kidney transplant in the future. A, if you donated, you go to the top of the list, right? And B, I'm A positive, which is the most common blood type. Okay, and I love that people call O positive and O negative rare, but I think they just don't know where to find it. But O positive and O negative is not rare, and at least it isn't in like the black community, because all three of my best friends are O positive, O negative, right? So they're all like, if you need one, I'll give you one, I'll give you one. Like my best friend's like, yo, if you need one, I can give you one, you know. But the thing is, you try to match the you get put on a six-point blood system, that's how they deal with who's a viable donor or not. Yeah, and he was like, his son was apositive because he had his mother's blood type, and she was, you know, Caucasian. So he sh it ended up being that me and him matched five out of six blood points, right? And his dad and him matched three out of six, and he wouldn't have rejected, probably, it's his dad, but to just give him the highest risk of success, I was the donor, and he's in the 99 percentile for success rates, so you know what? So be it. I'll do some hospital states for that. He might as well be my son.
SPEAKER_08:God bless you, bro. For real. God bless you. Um, like I think about that, man, with everything that's going on, with everything that's going on in today's in in today's society. Like I hear I hear um I hear a story like that, and I'm like, you have people that think about their fellow man, you know, and I think that um that shit is definitely needed these days. Um like I get it that we have to look out for ourselves. However, I'll I feel like people need to understand that we are connected, we are all connected, whether you whether you want to believe the shit or not, we are all connected, and we just got to get back to that type of shit. Um I want to talk about the online dating too, man. Um in your opinion, what are some of the pros and cons to online dating?
SPEAKER_06:I mean, pros, I want to say, I mean, because I mean pros, right? Oh, yeah, pros, not uh pros.
SPEAKER_02:That's a positive note.
SPEAKER_06:No, but like pros are like you can kind of narrow down what you're looking for. I would say you can absolutely, but then you know, at the end of the day, you get a lot of catfishing and not just physically, I mean, on what people want, what people actually do, you know. And I I I chuckle because my best female friend turned around, texting me the other day, and goes, My hinge date told me he travels for work, and he's a DoorDash driver. And I was like, Well, he travels for work. He wasn't lying though, he wasn't lying. I mean, it's the same, it's the same dude as a landscaper that calls himself a long beautician. Like, he ain't lying.
SPEAKER_08:I would think that a landscaper sounds better than a mom.
SPEAKER_06:Thanks, and she was like, he travels for work, and he's a DoorDash driver, Nick.
SPEAKER_08:Hey, bro, that's that's that's kind of smart right there, man.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, so yo, for real. I'm not mad at him, but like, and I told her, I say he technically didn't lie to you on the technicality, it was true. I mean, but like that was the that's the thing, right? Like, you gotta understand, just like when I look at a girl online, I look at every single picture and I say, okay, is she gonna look like picture one, picture eight, or picture 42? I don't know, but she's gonna look like one of them. I look at the three different types of pictures because right, like check it out, and people thought people don't get this, right? On some real shit, and I tried to tell this to a girl, guys don't use filters, they don't, they should I mean most don't like 90 95 of dudes don't use filters, okay?
SPEAKER_08:And like depending on their sexuality. Go ahead though.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, facts, and like some dudes may like you know put an AI picture up, or you know, but I'm saying if they use a real picture, like there's no filters, it's raw and unedited, and it may be a little older, but it's still what they are and who they are, you know. And and we've all had those, right? Like the girl who uses the picture from her senior year of college, and like you know, that ain't you, Jody. It was look, you can see the resemblance, right? Huh? Yeah, that's it, but like the pros is you can kind of narrow down what you want, right? And you can kind of put at least you hope demographically you they're not lying and they're close or they're far, depending on where they're at. But like the pros are that if you you know, I feel that you're more likely, and some people may prove me wrong because they feel differently because of different experiences. But with me, with online dating, I found that like I have found more girls willing to have serious relationships, even through the one night stands.
SPEAKER_08:I thought you were about to say there's some girls, what we're gonna have serious sex. I thought you. About to say that I'm sorry.
SPEAKER_06:No, there's a lot of girls want to use me for sex, dude. That's a pro. But like, but no, but that that's what it is, right? Like, you can find them decent girls that want to have something serious. That's a pro. I mean, you can kind of limit what you're looking for if they're honest. That's a pro. The cons are is that people catfish. The cons are that you never know if you're even meeting a female. That's why I wait a good month or two. I FaceTime, I talk. Like when I watch the show catfish, and they're like, yo, we live 35 minutes and never met each other in eight years. I'm like, yo, you didn't see a red flag there? What's 35 minutes? Take a bus. You know what I mean?
SPEAKER_08:Take a train. You're gonna see you're gonna see some type of flag and you have on a bus, some a red flag, American flag, a motherfucker, Mexican flag. I don't know.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, exactly. If somebody you're talking to isn't FaceTiming you or any on any type of platform, whether it's Snapchat, whether it's Instagram, whether it's you know on your phone, dude, that's a red flag. Like you, I I look at it from guys and girls' perspectives. Second of all, I would never send money to somebody I never met.
SPEAKER_08:Oh, hell the fuck no. I barely send money to motherfuckers. I know how the fuck while I send to your and then you get a couple of those girls now.
SPEAKER_06:This is a new trend where they want you to try to pay for their babysitters to go on a date.
SPEAKER_08:You ain't my kid.
SPEAKER_06:That's what I say. Yo, I ain't paying for Jody's baby. Like, then they want you to turn around and buy six meals for her kids at all. That's another trend now.
SPEAKER_08:Like, I look at it like this. That's a total, that's a that's a different level. Well, put like this, that's at a different time in a relationship.
SPEAKER_06:If there's a relationship, or these women doing this on first dates, my guy.
SPEAKER_08:Oh no, no, no. Hell the fuck no. Hell the fuck no, no, no, no, no. So that's to me, like, I think that if somebody hops out the window that quick and ask you for uh to pay for a babysitter or some shit like that, I think they just think you're a fucking goof. You know what I'm saying? Like they pretty much think you're a goofy. Um, and I mean shit, but there's a saying that goes, if you see a fool bump his head, I don't know who the fuck came up with that shit, but it is a saying that goes like that. Um B, I just kind of feel like hell the fuck no. Like, why would you do that? Like, that's the dumbest shit. But but but in this day and age, I don't know if I want to call it I don't know if I want to call it stupidity, uh being naive or desperation, bro.
SPEAKER_06:You see what I'm saying? I think that's why women wonder why dudes are on there in their lonely phase. Okay, because there is dudes are in their lonely phase right now, it's trending because guys are just like, I'm not about the dating. I'd rather go. Yo, I'm gonna go spend five months.
SPEAKER_08:Yeah, let me correct you on that. It's it's not lonely, like so. I think what it is, it's I'm not attaching myself to anybody. You get what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, but these dudes that aren't even dating, they're just out of it, they're just working, and they're like, yo, I'm gonna spend$500 this month on dates. Guess what? I'm gonna go catch a I'm gonna go catch a Pats game, I'm gonna go catch a Celtics game. I'm gonna go, I'm gonna, yo, that same six thousand dude. I did the math, bro. I went on 37 dates in six months. When I did the math, okay, I spent over five thousand dollars dating one year, okay. When I did the math, that's a vacation, my guy.
SPEAKER_08:Hey man, listen, I'm gonna say this, and I don't want to sound insensitive when I say it. If you spent all that money, I would at least think you at least got a blowjob on out of some of those dates. At least on the money, bro.
SPEAKER_06:Listen, bro. The the listen, the batting average was good. Batting average is real good.
SPEAKER_08:Oh, okay. Okay, all right. I'm just saying, I'm just saying the field goal percentage was real high. Okay, that's the thing. Not saying that you have to pay for it. I because I don't believe in that shit. Um, I really don't. I don't believe in it. I feel like because that's well, there's a joke that goes, men don't pay hookers to stay, they pay them to leave.
SPEAKER_06:I use that line all the time to people. I say to them, you know why you pay a hooker? And they'll be like, Why, Nick? No, like you don't pay them to stay, you don't pay them for the sex, you pay them to get out afterwards so they don't keep costing you.
SPEAKER_08:Right, right. So I think that um and then and I really gotta be transparent about shit. So I I just got out of the out of a marriage. Um I was married for 21 years, uh, together for 28. So that's why I asked you the question about um why did you in your opinion, in your opinion, damn? I thought you was my age. You said what? I thought you was my age. I don't know what your age is. So that's 36. You're 36. Oh, okay. Oh um no, bro, I'm 49.
SPEAKER_06:No, you an old head. I thought you was my age.
SPEAKER_08:Yeah, thank you. I mean, yeah, I don't know. I don't I don't know how to respond to that.
SPEAKER_06:Black don't crack.
SPEAKER_08:Thank you very much. Thank you very much.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, you look good, man. You look good. I when you say 28 years, I'm like, I did the math. I was like, yeah, he's definitely got to be at least 48 at the least. I mean, I figured at 20, I mean, you yo, you you definitely preserved yourself.
SPEAKER_08:Thank you very much, and what I learned, bro, what I learned is you have to learn how to have the uncomfortable conversations, and I think that in this day and age, that does not happen.
SPEAKER_06:100. No, it doesn't, it doesn't, and I'm telling you, for someone out there dating that age range, like 27 to like 42, it doesn't. Okay, it doesn't when things get rough. I call it they hit the no accountability button. When things that's what I call the block button. The block button is the no accountability button, okay? Because they will block you before they have that uncomfortable conversation, they will turn around and they will block you before they turn around and admit any responsibility to what happened, and that's why dudes are like yo, like just right now. Like, we might as well go out and do the dude things and you know, guy trips to Vegas, and you know what, live in it, then turn around and going through stress.
SPEAKER_08:And you know what? That's a good point, man, because um I I kind of found myself, I kind of found myself experiencing that shit, that stress, because I felt like I was I was losing myself. You know, um it was at a point where I was too concerned with what someone else wanted of me that benefited that benefited them instead of being concerned with I what I wanted, like who I am, you know, like what makes me what makes me move, what makes me tick. And I had to like, so you talked about that, you talked about that lonely phase. So I I had, but I didn't call it a lonely phase. You know what I'm saying? Like I was wow, you know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_06:It's just what they call it now. They just call it the lonely phase. Like you just you out there lone wolf in it.
SPEAKER_08:Well, I mean, like, oh no, like I just kind of look at it like motherfuckers don't be alone though. Um, it's just that you you're not staying. Yeah, you're not gonna staying the whole night.
SPEAKER_06:Um, yeah, you don't want that strings attached. Like, I'm not gonna be here for a bagel. I ain't gonna be there for yo. Don't order two coffees because I ain't gonna be around.
SPEAKER_08:I get it. Right. That's funny. Yeah, so I don't so I don't really think I don't necessarily think it was it was it was a lonely phase, it was but it was more of it was more of a phase that I had to get to know who I was, you know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_06:Like, yeah, I went through that after I made the stripper.
SPEAKER_08:Oh, well, come again.
SPEAKER_06:No, my second one. My second wife was a stripper. Oh, I'm love with a stripper, she loves that take a lot of that that take a lot of security on your end, bro. Yeah, I'm I married a stripper from the famous scores of West Manhattan. Oh wow, yeah, I was married for three years to her, she was longer than the dress bum babies marriage.
SPEAKER_08:So so what happened? Why why did why did y'all get divorced?
SPEAKER_06:She developed a pill addiction. Oh fuck, because most girls in that industry tend to have an addiction of some sort, yeah, either sex, buying stuff, or drugs, or alcohol, they tend to have something, and most girls usually are on something why stripping because or drinking heavy because it doesn't make the job as bad, right? So it got I mean, dude, like it got to the point where I was fighting pimps over her, like that would come because like we're talking she was in Atlantic City at one point, Atlantic City's rough, okay, it's rough, and it you know, so like uh dudes would come in to like scout girls to kind of put them on the street, dude. I would fight dudes over her, like it got ugly, but like to me, it was a very I was very secure at the end of the night. But the reason it is, is because if you got a girl that knows the industry, she knows how to act at the end of the night, and it whether it and when I'm say that she knows how to still reinforce her love for you, whether it's when she goes home, she wants to make you something to eat, you know, she wants to take it to the bedroom. Like at the end of the night, they a girl that's truly been in that field knows how to still secure her man, and she was good at that part.
SPEAKER_08:Wow, that's dope. Um, you know what it's I think it's um I think it's it's it's dope that you was able to recognize that, bro. You know, because a lot of times, man, we we don't like that that's what we up at. Like we don't recognize that we don't recognize that good characteristic in a woman, you know, and I recognize that young.
SPEAKER_06:I was 28. Yeah, I was in my young boy phase, okay. You know what I mean? And I did recognize it, like I saw the way it goes, and and she knew like she worked with two girls I went to high school with. Like she knew that like there were girls in there trying to sleep with me as much as there was dudes trying to sleep with her, right? So, and at the end of the night, I always let her know she was number one too. Like, you know what I mean? So, like, you just gotta know how to do it, you know, give and take.
SPEAKER_08:Yeah, yeah. Well, y'all include each other in the shit. I don't know, you know, but that's just I love him speechless either. That's that's that's that's today's this like that's the norm for today's society and shit, you know. And I I don't I don't have an argument with it, you know, uh, at all. Um so with that being said, let me ask you, um what is a healthy, what is a healthy relationship look like to you?
SPEAKER_06:Honesty, loyalty, um trustworthy, um, affectionate, um, having hobbies in which you guys enjoy doing together, but hobbies you guys enjoy doing apart. I think it's very healthy for you to have the gym and her have the gym as a couple thing, but you have you know going to a football game with your girl, that's cool too. She likes sports, that's even better, but or a basketball game or a baseball game, but like if she doesn't, like you have your sports game with you guys, maybe she has her happy hour once a week with her girls. Like, I believe being able to have that honesty and that open communication to me, a healthy relationship is that we can talk about the uncomfortable stuff, and there's no and the no accountability button gets hit, and there's no hanging up on the phone if we don't live together, like I'm a big, like we're not gonna go to bed mad at each other and wake up mad at each other, not knowing who's gonna text to.
SPEAKER_08:Right, right. Damn, that's it uh uh you uh that's that's that's it's very interesting that you say that, man. Um always tell motherfuckers that uh there are probably 97 97 of people that do not get a second text message from me. If I text your ass once and you don't respond, you I'm not about to fucking text you again because I feel like I know your ass hard, you know. So it's only three three percent of the people that I know that get a second text message. So when you said about the you know not texting and you know blocking motherfuckers and shit like that, like for me, you gotta be a very special person for me to um for me to send that second text or that third text is like you know shit, even with my kids, if your ass don't respond after the second text, I'm fucking calling you like hey, I know you seen that I fucking text you, you know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_06:I did the same damn thing too.
SPEAKER_08:Yeah, yeah. Um so with a serious question. Serious question. So just say you're you're dating someone and you love them to death, you love everything about them, they get you, they understand you, you can talk to them. Uh, you don't mind staying for that second cup of coffee. Um, but it's only one issue. She will always be musty. Like, no matter how much deodorant she uses, no matter how many times she takes a shower, she will always be musty. Can you stay with him? No. Oh, why? Why?
SPEAKER_06:Why is that hygiene's like my first? Hygiene is my first like quality on a list, yeah, and like you gotta get those levels right, girl. Like, it's gotta be, you better get them pH levels right because it it ain't gonna work. Like, cause you're gonna, I mean, we can't be driving in the car and I smell you, right? You know what I mean? Like, we can't be, yeah, you can't definitely think I'm gonna go down on that. That ain't ever gonna happen.
SPEAKER_08:I just feel like it's probably it's probably an offense, it's probably an offensive question if it's only two of y'all in a car and you say somebody must. Like it comes off as offensive, right? But I'm the person to say it anyway. Right, right, right, right, right, right, right, right.
SPEAKER_06:I'd still be like, yo, spray some perfume on it.
SPEAKER_08:Oh uh that doesn't take it, it doesn't take it too much. You're you're masking it, you're masking this. Um, talk about the podcast, bro. I'm sorry, I should I should have really been asked you about that, man.
SPEAKER_06:Nah, the podcast, okay. So I during rehabbing my kidney and stuff after the surgery, I became a live streamer, not a gamer, a live streamer, like I call it a content creating personality, yeah. Okay, what we do now, but just on screen live streaming, and you know, roasting people, you know, dealing trolling people when they troll you, you know, right? And I turned around and did battles and stuff on my app, but I started off as a POF dater. So why rehab and I was looking at girls and I saw the live section, so I clicked on the live section, and I saw a couple of girls that looked like baby spice. When I clicked on their profiles and went into their live streams, they looked like Scary Spice. So damn methany is strong in this bitch. And then and then I went into a couple other girls that were attractive, and I saw they had their date box up because POF was linked at the time with Meet Me and Zeusk, and they also own Kick K-I-K and Tagged. So I was on POF and Meet Me and Zeus and Scout. Scout's another one they have. So when I went in, I saw these girls had their date box up, and I saw the dudes were I saw gifts flying, but I didn't know who was sending them. And I'm like, dude, this is paid speed dating? Get the fuck out of here. I ain't paying the speed date. And I left. Then one day I clicked in my homeboy stream, and I didn't know him and anything. And I'm asking, I was like, Can I ask some questions about this app? Da-da-da-da-da. And we just started chatting. He's like, Yo, you want to jump in the box? I was like, Yeah. So then we started talking in the box. He's like, yo, this is like you stream, people gift you, like, you know what I mean, human connection. So I got into it. Little did I ever know I was gonna become, I was gonna break the top 900 all time, and out of seven million streamers, and have success and be part of the 25 milli club. Never did I ever think that was ever gonna happen in two years. And so at the end of the day, streaming started changing, it started getting noisier, it started getting more toxic, the algorithms, the numbers, and pulling milli weeks where your cash outs are like$2,500, people start hating on you and stuff. So, like, I was done with it. It was like, I'm over this, it was changing my attitude. Never did, and I was good, never ever did I become about the gifts. I was always about everybody being seen. Whether you had a high gifter level or you were, I mean, one of my best friends who I was on the phone with before this interview, literally, I met her when she had no gifter ring, and she's one of my closest friends. So, like at the end of the day, it started changing my attitude. And my other good friend, who's my number five all-time gifter, goes, Yo, Nikki, like you're not the same person, like when you're just not the same. This isn't helping you, benefiting you. You need to go another avenue, whether you go to TikTok, you know, whether you get into like reels, whatever you want to do, you know, but I think you should become a podcaster. And the long story short, I went and started talking to my other boy who had once had a podcast. He's like, yo, you would crush it, bro. You would crush it. And so his name was Nick, and me and him jumped in it together as two Nick's one cup. And little did I know I was gonna hit the top 10% of podcasts in the world in five months. Little did I know, yeah, yeah. I didn't know I just came off a 3,000 list in week. You know, I didn't know I had I would get my own sponsor to give me a signature energy drink called Fuel the Roar because I had a lion emoji, so I stuck with my brand and named it Fuel the Roar, and then across the front of it it says inspired by P Nick Energy, and that's my name. And uh, so at the end of the day, they Swift Energy gave me a drink, and you know, we stayed Boston strong and just kept rolling into podcasting, and I I do, I open my I do a lot of what you do, I do a lot of talking about dating and stuff because I think that is so irrelevant to everybody's life, and but I also talk about things that are going on in the world. We did, I did a good week of Halloween content, and now I like to bring on other podcasters, other content creators, because now I know I can give them exposure to my people, and that's cool because when you Google two nicks one cup, one of the compliments I get is that I use my platform to promote other content creators, and I love that because that's valuable for me, yeah. Okay, and it and one thing that I love about it is that it says you can that two nicks one cup you can tell is about genuine connection, not about you know the profit side, and that is the truth. I do it because I still get to provide content for people, I still get to create for people, and people still now can listen to me, and they're not forced to spend money. Not that I ooh, I'm back like you never hear me. Can you see me? Can you see me?
SPEAKER_08:I can't see you.
SPEAKER_06:Can you see me?
SPEAKER_08:Uh-uh.
SPEAKER_06:How do I oh there we go? There, back. So now I like it because I can come. That's first for me. Um now I like it so I can have my people follow me, and there's no force to spend money. Like, not that there ever was in the in the streaming community, but I think when your numbers grow and people come in your stream, they assume that you're as bad as a top badge, which is a top content creator, because I should have, by all rights, went for my top badge at 10 million. I just didn't because I my people said they wouldn't support me if I did, because people tend to change, so I just stayed me without it.
SPEAKER_08:So they think you would have got the big head?
SPEAKER_06:They were afraid, and I and I know I would have stayed humble, but I've also seen a lot of my friends say the same thing, and now they're not my friends because I watched them change, and I and people because people are your stream goes from being wholesome and homegrown to all of a sudden you got clout chasers in your stream constantly.
SPEAKER_08:Ah, exactly, exactly. Uh, I'm news to say that I'm news, it's like it doesn't feel it doesn't feel organic anymore, yeah. It doesn't feel organic anymore.
SPEAKER_06:Uh like you know, you know, people are only coming in your stream because you got that blue badge in the corner, and that's why they're coming in. They don't give a sh what you stand for, what you're about. They don't even know any of that, they just coming in dropping the drop.
SPEAKER_07:Ah, that's fucked up.
SPEAKER_06:And when people listen to me on this mic, I know that it's because people are promoting me verbally to their friends, their family. Dude, I got some of my kidney doctors listen to me. My infection disease doctor, my nurses all follow me. Like, it's crazy. So, like, I went the craziest thing, I will tell you this quick story. Craziest thing was I went in one time with sepsis, and the girl drawing my blood goes, Hey, how you doing, Nick? Because she knew me. I was like, good. I started a powercast called Two Nick's One Cup. You should check it out. It's on Apple, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Amazon Music, right? I'm giving the plug, and I'm telling her, right? She goes home and she goes, My husband listens to you, and I that was the biggest, coolest thing ever.
SPEAKER_08:That is fucking awesome. That is fucking awesome, bro. Real shitty. Yeah. Um I read a book, man, a long time ago. Uh shit, probably in my 20s. You know, it's a long ass fucking time ago. And the book was, um, but I remember it to, I remember it to this day. And the book was do what you love and the money will follow. And I that is something that I that is something that I truly do believe. Do something that you love. So my son, shout out to Bryce. He has uh a podcast called What Is Bryce Talking About Now? Um, he has a podcast, and I just get excited seeing him do his thing. And it's it's to the point where he took it and he started a podcast at his school. And he incorporated the podcast into the radio station at his school. So I look at stuff like that, and I'm just happy that um I'm just happy that I can be influential in some type of way. And and and it goes back to the to the parenting thing. Like you said, you love being a parent. I love being a parent, I love being a podcaster. Um it's a lot of stuff. It's a lot of stuff that I that that I just love to I love to do because it's me. And going back to the conversation we were having about relationships, um I realized what it felt like to lose me. And that was a bad fucking feeling, bro. That was a bad fucking feeling. And so I say all that to say this. Um, talking to you, man, it seems like you have a great idea of who Nick is. And that's that's that's awesome, bro. You can't you can't pay for that type of shit, bro. You can't pay for that type of shit. And uh I'm I'm I'm really appreciative of this conversation that we were able to have, and I know we've been trying to get this shit coordinated for the last two, three weeks, you know what I'm saying? Um happy that we're able to do it for real talk.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, me too. Like, I won't lie, I'm glad we linked up, but like that was my thing too, right? Like, you know, my daughter, big shout out to my daughter, Bella at San Diego State. Big thing with her is she listens to my podcast when she misses me. You know, she's trying to she wants. To incorporate herself into my podcast and do some episodes and then maybe branch off because she, unlike me, has 92,000 followers on tick on Instagram and TikTok because she's a girls basketball player and was ranked nationally. So she's like she's like that. I could give you some clout. No, you lie.
SPEAKER_08:Hey, listen, bro. That's your that's your kid. So that's not clout chasing. That's your kid. That's that's that's bringing, you know what that's called? That's called bringing your daughter to work day. That's what the fuck that is.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, so I'm gonna put her on a couple episodes. I promised her. I'll bring her on a couple episodes with a couple of her teammates and let her, you know, have fun and talk about stuff at college and you know I mean, do the back and forth thing. But you know, I've been blessed to meet a lot of cool podcasters. I think your your interview ranks in the top three. You know, I've been cool to do a lot of interviews lately. I mean, I've done 10 interviews in the last week and a half, three in a day, but like you are top three, and I'm glad we linked up. I mean, I had to chase you down.
SPEAKER_08:And I apologize. Hey, I apologize for that. Hey, but look, hey, you Ayla, bro, you got my number, man. Like you won, you're one of the few people that that has it. Uh I really do want to stay in touch, man. I want to do another one because you really didn't have all the time that I wanted to. Because you got a lot of shit going on, man. We didn't, I don't I don't even think we touched half of it. You know what I'm saying? Um, but I do want to I do want to link up again, um, and and and have another conversation with you, bro. Definitely, I'm in. For sure, for sure. Well, you got my number, man. Um, let the people know where they can find you at, bro.
SPEAKER_06:You can find two nicks one cup uh now trending on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Mzon Music, iHeartRadio. If you Google me on the first full page, um two Nicks One Cup, or you can reach out to me, follow me on Instagram, uh lowercase the letter B, Nick Energy, all lowercase underscore 2025.
SPEAKER_08:For sure, for sure. Once again, man, I always tell people time is way more important than money because you cannot get time back. You can get money back. Um, I mean, in the Trump administration, I don't know how that might that might not happen. Um, but you can you definitely cannot get time back. So I appreciate you giving me your time, bro. And uh, like I said, I sincerely do want us to lend back up, man. And have a conversation, man, because I think you're a very interesting person, bro.
SPEAKER_06:Thank you. I appreciate that for sure.
SPEAKER_08:Cool. I will be reaching out to you soon, bro. And uh have a great night, man.
SPEAKER_06:Hey, YouTube man, I'm gonna go hit you with that review, man. This was awesome.
SPEAKER_08:Thank you so much. Yo. Shout out to my man Nick T, man. Um check out that podcast, Two Nick's One Cup. And at this moment, um, we're gonna get into um the DJ portion of the show. Uh, like I said, DJs, if you want your 10, your 10 to 12 minute mix featured on the podcast, email DJ Monsons to Raw. That's S T A R A W, because people always spell that shit wrong. Uh DJ Monsoons to Raw at gmail.com. Make sure you got your name and your mix and all the information right there. Also, for people that's gonna be in the Chicago, Blue Island area this Saturday, November 1st, we are having the first, the first dope shit volume one. It's happening at Kitty's Cocktail Lounge. Kitty's Cocktail Lounge is located at slow down, slow down. Just give me one second. I know I should have had the information out, but I didn't. Relax. Um, okay, hold on. God damn it. Um Kitty's cocktail lounge is located. Hey, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh, eh. 2146 Vermont Street in Blue Island, Illinois. 60406. Yo. Doors open at 8 30 p.m. Admission is only$5. Your boy DJ Monsoon Stara will be on the ones and twos all night. We got performances from Flame One, Raw Caesar, and Stone Flacco. My man Vail the General and my man Andres Haley. So that is this Saturday, November 1st at Kitty's Cocktail Lounge, 2146, Vermont Street, Blue Island, Illinois, 60406. Y'all make sure y'all come through if y'all in the area. But as for now, let's get into this mix, y'all. It's your boy, DJ Marsongs to Rock.
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SPEAKER_08:What up, what up? That was a DJ spot like this week. That was my DJ monster. Shut out to my many things. Um shut out to anybody. Anybody that has anybody there, let's just talk about it. We don't know. Anyway, um Saturday, November first, we got Kitty's cocktail lounge for the first shit. I would be spending the night and we get um four performances, my girlfriend, my boy Andreas Haley, a boy general, and Ross sees and stone flawless gonna be a joke night, y'all y'all make sure y'all come out. It's Saturday, November 1st. Um think about thinking about shit, but you know me fucking man. Let me get back focus. Let me get back focus Let me put everything Let me get what I need to be doing. You have the blood of you. What are the you make in a door? What are you just taking yourself? Let me get let me give my man back. Um I gotta say I'm gonna find the platform Um followers to get you as a given work.